Often it helps to know you are not alone in this journey. There are many families that have experienced the loss of a baby. These sites have message boards and chat rooms. I have found these sites very welcoming and understanding as I have traveled this journey of grief.
SHARE http://www.nationalshareoffice.com I still go the message boards there daily- they have been an amazing support to me
Kotapress http://www.kotapress.com In particular I love the idea of continued parenting and Kara's zine she sends. Lots of ideas and a neat loss dictionary
Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep- Sends professional photographers free of charge to take photographs of the short time you may have to hold your child
A Place To Remember http://www.aplacetoremember.com Many memory items